Hey apple,Good thread, I wanted to know how that aspect is like from others' experience.
I currently have that with my bf...his pluto in my 12th house..and my pluto venus and merc in his 12th house, all in scorpio.
So far I am able to dig up this from Skyviewzone.com:
"When your Pluto is in your romantic partner’s twelfth house, you are physically, psychically, and emotionally bound together at both conscious and subconscious levels. You exert a powerful influence over your partner which may cause him or her to totally transform his or her inner thinking and spiritual programming. When your relationship partner’s Pluto is in your twelfth house, expect to experience a resurgence of previously abandoned or hidden emotional issues which will allow you to work through old karma, guilt, fears, and phobias, until you are ready to heal and restart your life without you old internal limitations. "
There is some attraction going on there, and perhaps some "getting under each other's skin" and some how having to change yourself. I'm already feeling it from him and even though it's not said, I feel he feels the same too about me.